Accept the Answer or Find Another Way to Ask?

When told nothing is available, do you accept the response or find another way to ask? Imagine this. It’s a snowy day, the day after Thanksgiving, in Colorado Springs. Although the roads are slick, you make it to your destination, the Gleneyre Castle, near the Garden of the Gods. As

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When Should You Walk Away From a Negotiation?

In the news recently we witnessed Amazon pull out of discussions with New York for an office in Long Island, and the President walked away from conversations with North Korea. While there are several reasons why these powerhouses didn’t come to an agreement, there is a bigger message for us.

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How to Negotiate with People You Don’t Like

February is usually the time we focus on the people we love. February is also Presidents’ month. No matter your political affiliation, do you “feel the love” coming from DC from those we elected to serve us? I don’t. And they certainly don’t show love, or even respect, for each

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How to Act on Instinct

Southwest Airlines is in the transportation business, right? Nope. Not quite. According to Southwest Airlines CEO Gary Kelly, Southwest Airlines is in the hospitality business. Last week, I had the privilege of attending a small group session of national thought leaders where we were encouraged to ask him “anything we wanted.” The

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How to Be a Great Boss – Not a Bully

Early in my career, a boss really intimidated me. He was so unpredictable and at times a bully. Each day, I would call his administrative assistant to ask about his daily mood. We had a code. I’d ask, “How’s the weather today?” and she’d say “It’s stormy,” or “It’s clear but

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How to Show Up Powerfully When Someone Doesn’t Like You

One of the most memorable comments I received on a speaker evaluation came from someone who was clearly not a Linda “fan.” “I think her information was good and she knew what she was talking about. However, she looks andsounds too much like my ex-girlfriend for me to give her a higher score. “

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How Underestimating the Nice Guy (or Gal) Can Cost You

You’re feeling really uptight.  You’re about to call a very high profile decision maker to ask for a favor or something big. You’ve been warned that this important person is very busy and probably won’t talk for long. You take a deep breath, mentally prepare for the worst, and make

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Things Are About to Change – So Now What Do You Do?

Change is inevitable. Inevitable, however, is not the same as easy. You’ve met people who are not good at change.  They are likely to make a lot of noise, show extreme emotions and attract attention in the short term. Then, they fizzle out before any long-term change occurs…just like fireworks.

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How to Ask Your Boss for a Raise

Is it time you asked for a raise? Or, are you waiting for someone to notice your efforts and offer a raise to you? Why? You are in charge of moving your career forward. You don’t have to sit back and wait for your boss or someone in leadership to

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Get More Done Without Burning Out

Take a Hike – literally. Today is National Take a Hike Day (November 17). Yes, there is a holiday for everything! With holidays and vacation time approaching, the stress to get it all done hits hard. End of year deadlines coupled with personal pressures always make me feel overwhelmed and less productive. Co-workers taking

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