Negotiating Work is Easier When You Work with People You Like

❓Do you work with your friends? ❓Were you friends before you started working with them or did the relationship develop at work? ❓What benefits have you received in your working friendships? This week I am blessed to spend quality time working, traveling, and enjoying life with some quality people! My

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Have You Ever Heard You Should Retreat to Advance?

Retreat? There are many, many quotes about war strategies and fighting to the death rather than retreating. Luckily, Finnish author Erno Paasilinna said, “It is also a victory to know when to retreat.” Companies and associations know the power of getting away from the day-to-day to think, imagine, and connect.

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Accept the Answer or Find Another Way to Ask?

When told nothing is available, do you accept the response or find another way to ask? Imagine this. It’s a snowy day, the day after Thanksgiving, in Colorado Springs. Although the roads are slick, you make it to your destination, the Gleneyre Castle, near the Garden of the Gods. As

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Have You Ever Practiced Not Making a Big Deal?

Yesterday was my birthday. For a change, I decided to keep it private. The day before I changed the setting in another social media. That privacy effort was my “social experiment” at not being social but being present. Guess what? The day still brought: ✔️Cards to open. ✔️Calls and texts

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Negotiate a Break for Yourself

If you travel for business, does this sound familiar? ✔️You work until you have to leave for the airport. ✔️Then, once your plane lands, you rush to get a ride to your hotel. ✔️Next, you hurry to check into your room in order to prepare for your meeting or event

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How Do You Deal with Detours?

I’m always impressed with the people who maintain a sense of humor or remain upbeat when faced with a setback. Our house backs up to a public golf course. In addition the regulars and high school teams, some of our golfers may not play often or are on the course

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Are You Bragging? Dealing with Your First Impression

Have you read social media posts recently? In addition to political posts, values sharing, and venting regarding inconveniences and slights, people post personal good happenings with a twist. A few days ago, my friend pointed out that many of today’s posts are full of “humble brags.” I hadn’t heard that

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Confidence Under Fire

❓How do you feel when you speak at an important event? ❓What do you do to negotiate with your nerves and still get the important words said? ❓How do you perform if people with impressive titles or roles are in the room? Most people tell me they get nervous when

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What Holds You Back from Negotiating?

Are you one of the five percent of people who say nothing keeps you from asking for what you really want? Terrific! Or Are you in the 20 percent who feel confident asking and negotiating? Great! Or Are so you find yourself in the other 80 percent who don’t feel

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If It’s Tuesday, It Must be Whataburger

Do you like Whataburger? If you have a restaurant near you, you know the good food and friendly atmosphere. It’s one of our family favorites. Whether we are home, celebrating special occasions like a high school win, or on the road, we can depend on Whataburger. My order is a #1,

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